Our Review of TW Jackson’s Book “The Magic Of Making Up”
There is a lot of stuff available concerning repairing a relationship after a breakup. A great deal of what’s been written about it comes to little more than a collection of ideas.
Did you know it’s possible to fix a damaged relationship, but to whom do you go to find the right plan?.
TW Jackson, a relationship expert, has designed possibly the foremost resource available for getting back with a lost love, called “The Magic Of Making Up”.Rather than go for the hard sell, what follows are some details from his book. {This is what Jackson calls “The Assessment Stage”, covering a two of actions required to repairrelationships}.
The first thing Jackson wants you to do is decide do you actually need this ex back in any case.
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Self esteem can be a fragile thing, and when we go through a breakup, this can really dent our confidence. It’s tempting to tell ourselves that we did so many things for our ex that we truly don’t deserve to be treated so badly. {The harsh reality is however, that life isn’t fair}.
Jackson
recommends that we attempt to disengage from our emotions and attempt to be objective. Rather than concentrate on the good experiences you had, think about the bad, and consider what both you and your ex could have done to prevent the split.
Approach close friends and close relations who know you well, and ask for their totally honest opinion of the relationship and why it ended.
It’s very important that you’re open with yourself and accept some responsibility for the breakup. It’s vital that your friends understand that they must pull no punches about you let alone your ex.
You have to be able to get a picture of yourself as seen by other people. It’s difficult to get people to pull us apart sometimes, but usually we put the blame on our ex partner, which is not always correct.
Once you have a clear about yourself, you have to decide whether or not you can change.
Your ex partner needs space also, so give it to them.
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Don’t let yourself become a “text terrorist”, seeking their attention like that - it just seems desperate.
Arrange a meeting at somewhere neutral after about 4-6 weeks.It’s important that you don’t appear to be begging them to come back, simply say that you’ve had to change, take some blame for the past, and suggest another go.
Secondly, the same thing but the other way around - consider whether your ex partner is likely to want to try again, especially if it was them who asked for the breakup and you want to have another try.
As relationships move forward, it’s simple to get into a comfort zone, when you start to take each other for granted.
Trouble is, this can lead one partner to look for new pasture, leaving the other out in the cold. Consider if this was what caused the initial split.
The above is just an outline, Jackson goes into much more depth on this most important first step.
The first part of the book is about the above - self analysis and deciding whether you should eventhink about getting back with your ex, with a clear and honest assessment of yourselves.
Then it’s the most challenging part of the course - how to recover lost self confidence and reinvent ourselves.
Next there is the detailed strategy section, which, if you did the preceeding sections properly, are the most exciting. Included in the strategies are where to go, what to
do and even when to go to bed together!
The final chapters are all about moving forward and recovering that lost love. {However, reading the book is not enough, you have to decide to take action!}
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