Helpful Relationship Advice for Men and Women Alike

This article will clarify things about men, women, relationships, and sex. I have specific relationship advice for men and for women, so if you aren’t prepared to hear the truth, this isn’t for you. Are you still with me? Let’s continue, then.

There is relationship advice for both men or women, however it is irrelevant if one is a man or a woman. You must always remember this:  men and women both have needs in a relationship, but these specific needs may not always be obvious to the opposite sex.  Therefore, you must first learn how the other sex operates. I will explain this further.

In order to have a happy and fulfilling life with your partner, you must understand and appreciate him or her and learn how he or she thinks.  This is the key to any lasting relationship. There are several things that people your age think about: what feels good to you, what feels the best, and what should be done at each moment. You can get advice from those in your family like your mother and father if you are lucky. It is even better if your family is willing to communicate with you and if you are willing to listen to their advice.

I’ve not been that fortunate.  I’ve been allowed to go it alone, and as a result, I have made several relationship mistakes. In my case, I didn’t have the support of a loving mother and father.  There was no one in my life whom I could turn to for advice or direction. No, I managed to screw it up all on my own. But it’s also true that no one gets credit for my successes and accomplishments but me. One of the most important decisions- and the hardest, is the task of picking the person that you will spend the rest of your life with.

You may be wondering why an average man like me feels he has a responsibility to offer important relationship advice to you.  My primary motivation is my daughters; I don’t want them to struggle the way I did and enter into relationships with the wrong people. When you begin to navigate through the world of women, I wish you luck! My daughters are smarter and more cultured than you, and are generally better than you in about every conceivable way. I have realized that God has a sense of humor when I think about the vast differences in men and women.

Since the beginning of time, men and women have had o deal with each other. Although we are of the same species, we have so many differences. Everthing about us is different. The way we look, think, act, and sound. Men are physically stronger, but women are clearly smarter. I can hear it now, some deeply offended guy yelling, “What do you mean she’s smarter than I am?” Of course it’s true: she’s far more equipped to learn about relationships than you are. Its a fact, so stop the whining and let’s get on to the next point. When was the last time you heard a woman yell about a man being stronger?

You must understand that because I am a man, I tend to look at life’s situations through a man’s eyes. I am also able to look through the eyes of women becuase of my lovely wife and my two daughters. This is why I feel strongly that there should be specific relationship advice targeted to women and specific relationship advice targeted to men.  When advice is tailored to a specific population, it will be much more helpful.  Men and women, though very different, can learn to look at situations through the one another’s eyes and live a very happy and fulfilling life together.

Henry Roelink considers himself an expert on love.

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