Law of Attraction Coach Explains: Let Yourself Off the Hook, You Don’t Deserve to Live Without It
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach , writes… …
Perhaps you’ve heard of the ‘Bucket of Crab’ mentality. I am talking about the sort of mindset that says “if I can’t have it, you can’t either.” It’s a way of negating another person’s happiness by dragging that person down to their inadequacy. It sometimes gets expressed by a friend or family member who doesn’t like or does not want you striving for a higher goal or going beyond that which is typically the norm for the culture. We’ve all been there.
It’s similar in a tribe mentality. The tribe is meant to serve and keep the culture in a sustained state of relative safety. Every person has an explicitly delineated and extremely important role and function. If you wanted to reach beyond (as is our very nature) you actually risked the safety of the tribe. You’re taught: “I can’t expand beyond what my tribe needs of me, otherwise I’d be ostracised and experience certain death”. You’d be exiled and not given food or water and no other tribe for hundreds of miles.
However, you are wired to create. Your inherent nature is to go beyond, express, desire, and manifest. Then reach for another fun project or dream to fulfill. I’ve read that prior to reaching five years of age, they have heard the word ‘No’ over 60,000 times! It seems that our nature and our cultural values are conflicted with each other.
It’s a small wonder contradicting beliefs, critiquing mental monologue and fear of success haunt us from time to time. It’s been battered into our programming. This is known as cognitive dissonance. It’s like interference from your head when you hold many opposing thoughts at the same time. This dissonance becomes uncomfortable and wants a solution. It gets resolved in one of two ways. Either by returning to old, known patterns, or by allowing yourself to let go of the old to reach for a better place mentally. A Law of Attraction Coach can assist you in completely changing your outlook with expert life coaching.
It’s no wonder with the programming we have inherited that it can be so hard to make any effective change. The truth is, it is not your fault. Do not feel bad and heap more negative judgements on yourself. You are not to blame. Law of Attraction Relationships are incredibly rewarding and fulfilling past your wildest dreams! Imagine someone who is everything you have ever desired in a partner.
It is not your fault, but you do have a responsibility to take your power back. You’ve always had the ability to choose who you are and control that. Your word is attractive. And even more intensely, your thoughts in conjunction with emotion are creative and attractive. Glare the inhibiting programs in the face and confidently declare a different possibility for yourself. You are meant to thrive and create. You have the support of the Universe. Relationship Attraction has never been more powerful with the discovery of the Law of Attraction.
