Is Your Ex-lover Taking You For A Ride?

Is your former lover behaving as if there was no break in the relationship when you are still reeling with the pain of the split?  This is when you have started to think that life would get back on the rails.  But that is the problem.  It doesn’t.

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You hear yourself saying, “what the dickens is this?’

Do you feel that you are in such a situation? Is your ex-lover just using you?

So is your old love straight with you?

Here are some guidelines which will indicate if your former lover is not straight with you.

Your old love, not just stays in touch but wants you do chores for them even if there is someone else in their lives now.

In most cases, your former lover does not want to let you slip away and he or she are taking advantage of how you feel.  This situation is not unusual and in most cases the person loves the all the attention he or she is getting.

- Your old flame is getting a kick out of making you do what he or she wants without any commitment on their side.  It can be hard on you.  Remember, you are being used as a stop gap.  So don’t let that happen.

Your old flame is getting a kick out of making you do what he or she wants without any commitment on their side.  It can be hard on you.  Remember, you are being used as a stop gap.  So don’t let that happen.

- You may rush to their aid when they need it but you are alone in your hour of need. They all have some silly excuse to wriggle out and this should open your eyes to see the reality. In this relationship you get nothing, you only give. 

There could be instances of your ex-lover being honestly confused about their emotions for you. They may realize that they made a mistake in the break-up but would hate to admit it. They may even not know how to explain it to you. Talking it out frankly and facing the problem head-on would help to clear the air. There are also times when they are in two minds about the relationship. On the one hand they may say that they can’t live without you and on the other they may blame you for not accepting that they just want to be friends.

In many cases, these old flames don’t want to decide this way or that.  They sit on the fence.  And they often take the easy way out.  Here’s how it might play out.  They will talk about how they were missing you and then crib about how clingy you are, when all along they only want to be pals.

But don’t accuse them of playing games with you.  It is something that they are unaware of and it could well be an offshoot of the break up. Are you looking for the return of your old love? And this time to get back together? So get a plan in place or else you will spend the rest of your life as a friend. Cheer up, there is an answer.

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