Loves You… Loves You Not.

You keep wondering whether you are reading the signs rights and your former lover wants to get back with you.  It might be what you are hoping for, so there is a tendency to look for signs of the return.  Be careful, it is snare that you should avoid.  Even if your old love likes to be around you, there may not be a serious relationship in the offing.

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The following are some signs and their meaning:

*Does your former partner still keeps in touch and is even the first to do so?  Don’t misread this; sometimes it is just for `duty’s sake’.   All this adds up to is that they just want to talk to you and get news about common friends.

*It could be that this person has neither met anyone else nor is he or she involved with anyone.

* Is the person revamping the way he or she looks?  Is it a change, they know for sure, that you would approve of?  Will these changes that enhance personality and change of habits make them look better in your eyes?

* In your presence they are sweetness personified and lovable. They show concern and offer their assistance, sometimes unsolicited.

* The person talks about what went wrong in the relationship, explains his or her point of view and how there could have been a misunderstanding.   The message is clear; the person indicates that issues could be addressed in a better way.

*Your old love tries to flirt with you and acts all bothered around you.

* When you are really in need of their company, they will go all out to be with you

* You figure in all their future plans

If you have answered ‘yes’ to many of these questions then the person is still crazy about you and believes that there is a future for this relationship.  But be careful, this might not mean that the person wants to come back immediately.  And if he or she was the cause of the break up, the feelings are mixed and confused.   This brings us to the next step and what that would actually mean.

*The person’s feelings would all be mixed up.  While the issues that caused the break up are relevant, they might still want to be close to you. 

* They wait for you to move in first. They want to know, if you are a changed person now and that the cause of your earlier break-up is no longer there.

* This could be an ego trip for the person, who feels high that you still want him or her. Or is the person taunting you.  How do you find out?

* Give it time and don’t rush. It is advisable to go single and unattached for sometime and really think this out. You also need to take time off to heal the break, more so when the relationship that was broken was an intense one. This is needed to re-discover you. Understand what went wrong and learn from it so that any future relationship is not jeopardized. Let not the break harbor bitterness but offer a hand of mature friendship.

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