How To Keep A Man Interested
This is without doubt one of the things that trouble all women… how to keep a man interested within a relationship! We all want the happily-ever-after with love continuing to flourish with each passing year. In our fairy story hopes our shared magnetism grows with each month that we spend together but when we look around us we see couples in distress who are bored with one another and whose relationships are either one of tolerance or of quiet desperation. You have begun to see the same signs in your relationship but your intuition tells you that there has to be more for your relationship then this…. so to keep a man interested what steps do you need to take?
1. Maintain the playful teasing! Keeping love alive requires that you preserve the fun and happiness in your relationship fizzling and is there a better way to do this then to keep the playfulness going. The child inside each of us never passes away (it can get inactive but it’s always there concealed under all of lives concerns). What awakens his inner child? What brings the child inside him alive? Reawaken your relationship by bringing this out regularly!
2. Keep interested in him! The issues of everyday living have a way of crushing any relationship as each person focuses on their own issues. Keeping love alive calls you to make a determined effort to keep interested in what is going on in his life. Not just nominal interest but honest interest. Be in the know about what is happening in his office, relationships etc. there should be no taboo subjects between the two of you. Remember that men do not like to hash over every little thing so give him the freedom to talk about what he wants to talk about and when he wants to talk.
3. Truthfulness is king! Are there things that you are unable to discuss with each other?. To keep a man interested requires that you are honest to one another so that you are both happy with each other since you are not holding grudges or resentfulness toward each another. Untruthfulness impedes intimacy between people. Of course there are things in your past that you may not want to bring up as they will do nothing for your relationship.
4. Create time for each another without fail! Keeping love alive calls you to set away specific time for each other. Talk to each other each day for at least 30 minutes. Also schedule a date night once a week and a weekend away every three months where you spend time with just each other doing something you both enjoy. This is a time for you to focus on just each other and to connect again to each other emotionally.
5. Keep the adventures going! Don’t get stuck in the normal routines of life but be open to new experiences that you can both enjoy. To keep a man interested you need to let your your imagination run wild and create happy memories that fortify the glue that joins you to each other.
6. Mutual respect! Cultivate a culture of reciprocated admiration. Resist the pull to think the worst of him as that will wear down your love for him. If something he does can be explained in two different ways and one way is heartless and the other is sensitive, chose the finer way and believe the best of him and not the most unpleasant as is the custom. This is hard as it will be like rowing upstream against our tendency to believe the worst but keeping love alive requires shared admiration.
7. Fight fair and in a decisive style! Learn to battle sensibly without taunts or acrimony. Learn to deal with difficulties as they come and once you have dealt with them you need to never (ever!) bring them up again. Yes….it is soooo appealing to remind him of all his faults but this will do nothing for your love life. To keep a man interested obliges you to have a forgiving attitude and a short memory of forgiven wrongs.
8. All types of women to him! You have to be all the different types of women that he needs. If he needs a “whore” in bed then you have to become that (except if what he wants is uncomfortable to you). You want him happy at home not him guessing if he can get what he needs out there!
