Signs Husband Is Not In Love

Are you wasting nights speculating if your relationship has floundered on the rocks, knotting your tummy each time he talks dreading those two words ‘it is over’? Completly understandable especially when you have grown comfy and don’t want to burst that make believe fairy bubble of you and him living happily until death parts you.

Unfortunately the signs that it’s coming to an end are all there so you cannot deaden yourself forever. Here are some signs husband is not in love.

1) Time is one among many apparent breakup signs.  How he spends his time speaks a lot about your relationship. If he doesn’t ring the bell at your door anymore, doesn’t remember that cup of tea after work and generally ‘hustled’ becomes his frequent by word, then you have a serious problem. If he is the thoughtful type or is too afraid to break up with you, then he will give you a date after a long period but don’t be suprised though if he leaves quickly.It may not be new work commitments but maybe, just maybe, another woman is taking your time.

2)Lack of communication is another of the obvious signs of a cheating husband/boyfriend. A healthy relationship is founded on letting each other know whats happening. So if he doesn’t bother calling and he either doesn’t call you back or does so once in a long while then he could be losing interest in you and you may be headed for a break up. Leaving messages would not take to much from him would it?. If communication has died or is disappearing this is one amongst many clear signs husband is not in love and for your relationship to carry on you must stem this flow!

3) Funds do not flow in your path.When the money stops coming in, it’s time to move on. Obviously…you are not in it for his money. Well, if that helps you sleep at night, but if he is not using some of his money on you, he is spending it on someone else. Unless of course he is stingy who has never, even in the heady early days, used any money on you. And that is a whole other problem. We use our money on the things that we love or care about so if he is not using money on you then what does it say about how he thinks about you.

4) He has new tastes. A symptom of a new power in his life. Out of the blue he likes the color pink for his shirts and ties although he until that time thought it was too feminine. He now takes hours on his appearance and has changed his scent, one of the signs husband is not in love. Just out of interest, when was the last time he wore that shirt that you got him for christmas? Don’t sweat it girl, a new love interest is running his clothing tastes.

5) He is playing psyche games. You have fights over the tinyest things and lately the slightest thing seems to lead to a blow out, a great foreboder of a breakup. You tread on egg shells around him and any questions or comments become an argument. He is grumpy and says horrible things! Take heed, he is shifting blame to confuse you.