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How To Talk Dirty To Women

Sex therapists, counselors and experts agree … Dirty talk can be a fantastic way to rev up your sex life, let your lover know what you want, AND enhance sex for both of you. Too often, couples who have been together for quite some time lose the “spark” they once had in the beginning of their relationship. Has this happened to your relationship? Perhaps sex seems more like a burden these days rather than something you’re eager to do. Whatever happened to the eroticism you both once felt toward each other?

This sense of sensuality-lost can kill your love life over time. The bottom line is, to retrieve that “old flame” of lust and passion again, you’ll have to step up and bring some diversity back into the bedroom!

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An easy way to begin revving things up is with sexy words and phrases. Getting started can seem a bit bizarre at first. Maybe you said something dirty before, and it was taken out of context or even turned off your partner. Below are some secrets to begin the right way and get comfortable with talking dirty.

Be You Unless you are really a porn celebrity, abstain from acting like you’re in a pornographic movie with her. Your wife or girlfriend may take it as a bit bizarre. Saying degrading words like “bitch” or “whore”, or saying “who’s your daddy”, will come off out of character if you are generally a nice guy. You’re better off using a loving, romantic tone. So keep it mellow, such as, “Oh yeah honey, I love it when you make your lips all wet and do that to me”.

Try it yourself first What might seem erotic in your imagination, might feel a bit different when said out loud, so try a few phrases. Do they sound sexy, or awkward? Then make a mental note of the lines that you’ll try this evening. Keep in mind that how she’ll react to your talking dirty has a lot to do with how “connected” she feels to you.

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The first time Begin with some “aahh’s” and “oh, yeah” type sounds and phrases with some deep, obvious breaths. You’ll be clueing her in to how you’re about to take the excitement to the next level.

Compliment Women absolutely love it when you tell them how hot and sexy they are to you! Tell her things like, “How your ____ feels is so hot,” or I love how curvy you are”. Saying these phrases aloud can really get both of you more excited!

Tell her what you like Every now and then,phrases such as “Oh, the way you rub against my _____ is so hot”, or “I can’t wait to put my ____ into your _____”. By now, things are really HOT, and the sexy talk you’ve started is probably coming from her as well!

Momentum Due to your hot and exciting dirty talk, your woman may be eager to push the erotic envelope some more! You shouldn’t be surprised if she’s the one who brings a few new erotic moves, because you made the effort to make sex with her more exciting.

With taking a first step toward some more variety in the bedroom, you’ll be fascinated by how more steamy and erotic your sex life can be again!

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