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What Is Love All About

Have you ever found your self sitting there thinking what is love all about, if you answered yes this article may just be the thing tho help you sort it out once and for all. Love is all about how life can is easier when you have somebody to share it with, don’t believe me ask your shrink.

People that have love live longer or so they say but is this true, you would think so because the number of official people over the years that have said just this is massive. But I wonder were all the people that said this in love.

Now if you had the time and money to do a detailed study of everyone in the world to see what the effect of love had on the population as a whole, imagine the implications that could come from it. Imagine all the people who were in love or had love and lost it, it would prove terrible to all those relationship experts, and the world would never be the same again.

Now that I have your interest and being the little helper that I am I have dug a little bit deeper into the research and it is indeed true that all those people in love do live longer. Ok I didn’t do that much digging into the research but its easy to see by looking at it the statistics that all those people sitting happily on there porch after 50 years that love is the key to there long lives and what its all about.

So if you want to live longer focus less about what you eat and how much exercise your do. The real secret to a long life is to go out and find yourself love. By doing this you can overcome all the pains that come from giving up all the other things that are bad for you by becoming addicted to someone else. Now you are asking yourself is any of this true, and I’m not sure it really matters, the soft warm feeling that come from being with your true love is the perfect thing to take your mind off your problems and if it gets you’re a bit more time on this earth than what’s the harm of trying.

Finding Your True Love

Ok this may be a little out of the scope of this article but truly there are many ways but only one that we are really interested in and that using the internet, is there any other way. Ok sure there’s actually physical interaction with real people but let face it love is a numbers game you need to try a massive amount of people before you find the perfect one and the internet is perfect for this.

How To Find The Perfect Love

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …

Fran from Idaho wanted to know “How do I find my ideal partner?”

Asking how to find love is important.. Before you can attract what you want in your ideal relationship, you need to be absolutely sure what you want and what you won’t accept. By asking yourself the question and writing it down, you’ll start the important first step.

If you’re not sure, if you’re afraid to state what it is you really want, then you’re transmitting either mixed or very weak, diluted signals to the Universe. You can’t get very far with weak desire. I’ve always found that a good life coach helps a great deal.

I suggest that you dig deep into your heart of hearts. You can keep your personal work private. It is important, however, that you get clear and state what you want in detail. In the meantime, check in and notice what’s going on emotionally for you. Are you feeling hopeful or doubtful? This is an emotional tool to help you know how strong your attraction signal is. If you’re doubtful, then simply work on what it will feel like when…..

• When you have the love of your dreams in your life
• When you have that special one to plan weekends with
• When your family meets him for the first time and everyone gets on splendidly

Find what it will feel like, AS IF, it’s already happened.

Another important question is, ”What limiting beliefs are standing in the way of you allowing in your desire? Most of the time, because of our conditioning to sell ourselves short play it safe and other limiting beliefs, we don’t move forward in our relationship quest with much determination. That is, we have the energy of low expectancy that hangs us up in allowing our desires to be fulfilled.

Remember, the Universe likes clarity, so get clear on what you want. You’ll start to attract love with my free relationship video. And add some passion or emotion to your desire and imagine what it feels like to already have your desire fulfilled. When you get my FREE Video, you’ll learn so much more about Relationship Attraction revealing the #1 Secret to Finding the Love of Your Dreams — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com

Trouble Finding Love? How Can I Find Perfect Love?

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship
Coach
, writes… …

Fran from Idaho asked the question “How do I find my ideal partner?”

You’ve come to the right place for relationship advice.

To find your ideal love you need to first get clear about your desire.

By asking yourself the question and writing it down, you’ll start the important first step.

Many people just figure that they’ll wait and see who shows up and decide from there. But that conveys a weak desire That conveys a weak desire and sends the universe crossed signals. I’ve always found that a good

life
coach

helps a great deal.

I recommend that you probe the depths of your heart.. You don’t have to share your deeply held desires to anyone else. It is important, however, that you get clear and state what you want in detail.  In the meantime, check in and notice what’s going on emotionally for you. Do you feel excited and expectant or anxious and full of doubt? This is an emotional tool to help you know how strong your attraction signal is. If you’re doubtful, then simply work on what it will feel like when…..

• When you’re fulfilled in the love of your dream
• When have your best friend as your beloved
• When you introduce him to your friends and they love him

Find what it will feel like, AS IF, it’s already happened.

Another important question is, “Are you resisting your desire”? Most of the time, because of our conditioning to sell ourselves short play it safe and other limiting beliefs, we don’t move forward in our relationship quest with much follow-through. That is, we have doubts, fears and poor self-image that hangs us up in allowing our desires to be fulfilled.

Remember, the Universe likes clarity, so get clear on what you wanlove,relationship,find love,relationship advice,love advice,law of attractiont. You’ll start to attract love with my free relationship video. And add some passion or emotion to your desire and imagine what it feels like to already have your desire fulfilled. When you get my FREE Video, you’ll learn so much more about Relationship Attraction revealing the #1 Secret to Finding the Love of Your Dreams –   Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com

Trouble Finding Love? How Can I Find Perfect Love?

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Expert , writes… …

Fran from Idaho asked the question “How do I find my ideal partner?”

Well Fran, great question about how to find love.. Before you can attract what you want in your ideal relationship, you need to be absolutely sure what you want and what you won’t accept. What do you want?

Many people just figure that they’ll wait and see who shows up and decide from there. But that conveys a weak desire That conveys a weak desire and sends the universe crossed signals. I’ve always found that a good relationship coach helps a great deal.

I suggest that you dig deep into your heart of hearts. You can keep your personal work private. It is important, however, that you get clear and state what you want in detail. In the meantime, check in and notice what’s going on emotionally for you. Are you feeling hopeful or doubtful? This is an energy diagnostic that will tell you how strong your attraction signal is. If you’re doubtful, then simply work on what it will feel like when…..

• When you have the love of your dreams in your life
• When have your best friend as your beloved
• When your family meets him for the first time and everyone gets on splendidly

Find what it will feel like, AS IF, it’s already happened.

Another important question is, “Are you resisting your desire”? Most of the time, because of our conditioning to sell ourselves short play it safe and other limiting beliefs, we don’t move forward in our relationship quest with much determination. That is, we have doubts, fears and poor self-image that hangs us up in allowing our desires to be fulfilled.

Remember, the Universe likes clarity, so get clear on what you wanlove,relationship,find love,relationship advice,love advice,law of attractiont. You’ll start to attract love with my free relationship video. And add some passion or emotion to your desire and imagine what it feels like to already have your desire fulfilled. When you get my FREE Video, you’ll learn so much more about Relationship Attraction revealing the #1 Secret to Finding the Love of Your Dreams — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com

How to Have Success in Love

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Specialist, writes… …

I’m frequently asked how to find love when there’s been so much failure in the past. I thought I’d share some of the frequently asked questions and the Universal Law of Attraction model answer.

1. I’m in my mid-40’s. I’m just about to give up on love. If I haven’t met a good one by now, will it ever happen?

Don’t give up. It’s NEVER too late. Make it your dominant intention to find out what belief you hold that stands between you and being a magnet for love.

If you’ve been asking and it’s not been forthcoming, there’s only one reason. When you ask, and it’s not coming, you have a dominant belief or vibration about it being difficult. You have a lingering belief in not being worthy, or that something else is wrong with you. Look for whatever that limiting belief is and work with a coach to soften and shift that belief. Read how to bridge a belief in the Resources section on www.nanettegeiger.com.

2. How do I bring in the certainty in receiving? That is an excellent question! And I believe that it is the foundational piece that most of us need to work on. Build your belief muscles by pretending how wonderful it will be when your love shows up. Practice what it feels like to be in love. One of the very best ways is to work with the ‘feeling state’ as much as possible. Practice frequently. It takes repetition to learn a new habit.

By the feeling state, I mean engaging all of the senses by imagining what it will be like when … … the love of your dreams shows up … you plan a fun weekend getaway for her … you hold hands and tell jokes … you play games in the car on a long ride etc., etc. You get the idea. This will move your vibration into the state of allowing because you’re acting AS-IF it’s already so.

What’s the Secret to Finding Lasting Love?

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Specialist, writes… …

I get asked questions about how to find love , the kind of love that lasts. Here are a couple of your burning questions and my Law of Attraction coaching answer to them.

1. I’m just about to give up on love. I’m in my mid-40’s. I’m afraid my time has passed.

If you can desire it, you can achieve it. Find out what belief you have, what story you’re telling yourself that’s not true and make it your business to shift that belief.

If you’ve been asking and it’s not been forthcoming, there’s only one reason. When you want a love relationship and you keep getting duds, there’s a mismatch in your beliefs. You have a lingering belief in not being worthy, or that something else is wrong with you. Look for whatever that limiting belief is and work with a coach to soften and shift that belief. Read how to bridge a belief in the Resources section on www.nanettegeiger.com.

2. How can I know that I’m in the allowing mode? That is an excellent question! And I believe that it is the foundational piece that most of us need to work on. Build your belief muscles by pretending how wonderful it will be when your love shows up. Practice what it feels like to be in love. One of the very best ways is to work with the ‘feeling state’ as much as possible. Practice frequently. It takes repetition to learn a new habit.

By the feeling state, I mean engaging all of the senses by imagining what it will be like when … … the love of your life comes to stay … you plan a fun weekend getaway for her … you giggle at the inside jokes you both share … you sing songs in the car on a road trip etc., etc. You get the idea. This will move your expectation frequency into the state of allowing because you’re acting AS-IF it’s already so.

How to Have Success in Love

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert, writes… …

I get asked questions about how to find love , the kind of love that lasts. Here are a couple of your burning questions and my Law of Attraction coaching answer to them.

1. I’m in my mid-40’s. I’m just about to give up on love. If I haven’t met a good one by now, will it ever happen?

Don’t give up. It’s NEVER too late. Make it your dominant intention to find out what belief you hold that stands between you and being a magnet for love.

If you’ve been asking and it’s not been forthcoming, there’s only one reason. When you ask, and it’s not coming, you have a dominant belief or vibration about it being difficult. You have a lingering belief in not being worthy, or that something else is wrong with you. Look for whatever that limiting belief is and work with a coach to soften and shift that belief. Read how to bridge a belief in the Resources section on www.nanettegeiger.com.

2. How can I know that I’m in the allowing mode? That is an excellent question! And I believe that it is the foundational piece that most of us need to work on. Build your belief muscles by pretending how wonderful it will be when your love shows up. Practice what it feels like to be in love. One of the very best ways is to work with the ‘feeling state’ as much as possible. Every day, several times per day.

By the feeling state, I mean engaging all of the senses by imagining what it will be like when … … the love of your life comes to stay … you plan a surprise gourmet picnic for him … you giggle at the inside jokes you both share … you sing songs in the car on a road trip etc., etc. You get the idea. This will move your expectation frequency into the state of allowing because you’re acting AS-IF it’s already so.

How To Find Love with Your Ideal Partner

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Coach, writes… …

Finding love is doesn’t have to be like searching for the proverbial needle in a haystack.
Admitedly, it can feel that way, I can assure you that you can find the perfect mate for you if you follow these steps.
What you want in your ideal partnership relationship will determine what actions you take to find him or her.
Whether you want ease without commitment or deep intimacy, knowing what you want is the first step There are three critical steps to relationship attraction. Attraction or chemistry is not about how attractive you look, having the perfect come on lines, or making the right moves. I’m referring to who you are that comes from the inside that will determine how attractive you are and the kind of vibe you give off. There is a universal principle known as the Law of Attraction which states like attracts like. When you know what you want, exude the essence of what it feels like to already have it, and let go of the how and when, you’ve removed the resistance to having the relationship you deeply desire and deserve. Let me explain these steps more clearly. 1. Decide on What You Want. The universe is made up of energy which is moldable. Physics has proven that. We are part of this universe and our thoughts are part of the creative energy that molds the energy. For example, everything you see was once at first a thought. Knowing what you want helps you clarify your intentions and offers a strong intention to yourself and to the universe. Many of us get wishy washy here and end up having relationships and experiences we don’t think we’d necessary chose. But choose we did. We just chose from a default setting that goes something like… “well, I’m not sure, whatever, maybe, maybe not.” There’s not much deliberate intent in these kinds of feelings or thoughts. You can be clear about what you want and get it. Make a list of the qualities and values you desire in your ideal mate. 2. How will it feel when you have what you want? To charge up your attraction power, get into the feeling state (the essence) of what it will feel like when. When she calls you those lovely pet names, when he calls to ask where you’d like to go to dinner tonight. The smiles, the laughter, the inside jokes you share. Imagine what it will be like when … 3. Let the Universe Handle the Details. Lastly, become an allower and go with the flow. When you let go and go with the flow, you’ve let go of resistance to having your love show up. Your only job is to feel good all the way to having him or her show up. From that place you’ll be inspired to actions that put you in the places, be surrounded by circumstances, synchronicities and small miracles that orchestrate the perfect meeting. That’s how it happened for me and that’s what I teach my clients to do for themselves. Find out what people are saying about Relationship Group Coaching at www.nanettegeiger.com/groupclass

4 Things Every Man Should Know About Relationships

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert, writes… Contrary to accepted love advice that’s out there on the internet, asking your potential mate a series of interview questions is one sure-fire way to make a bad first impression and have him looking for the door.

Seriously, put yourself in someone else’s shoes, asking you questions that you’d expect to hear on a job interview. Would that make you feel comfortable? I don’t think so. The love advice you get from a man’s point of view, may not work from a woman’s perspective. From a woman’s point of view, a real man is a man who can communicate about what he wants and how he feels.

It’s more prevalent than ever for a real man to speak her mind and communicate openly from his heart. The ability to openly communicate is a valuable trait and a turn on for most men.

Whether you’re looking for casual dating or someone to spend the rest of your life with, you must start from square one. For the best tips and Love Advice for Dating the most important thing to know is what you want.

1. Knowing What You Want

What qualities in your date or mate are you looking for? Get clear about what those qualities are and you’ll have an easier time knowing when you meet her. Is she funny, does she think you’re funny? Is it important to you that she likes sports? Is he interesting, well-travelled? What about sports, hobbies, politics, or food?

When you have an idea about what you want you can start sampling from what you encounter in the world or in the relationships of your friends. What do you admire about the friends who have successful relationships? Are there elements that turn you off in other peoples’ relationships? When you’re straightforward and clear about what you want, trust me, you’ll be much more able to know when you’ve encountered Ms. Right.

2. Be Flexible

When you’re flexible about how, when or who shows up, you remain open more possibility and how much easier it is to attract the right one. I’m not suggesting that you compromise or settle for less. I’m suggesting that you remain in the inquiry of ‘what if she’s even better than I can imagine?’ It’s possible to get even more than you asked for. That’s what happened for me. I got clear about what I wanted and I stopped listening to everyone else about how hard it was to meet eligible partners.

3. “BE” the Person You’d Like to Meet

That’s right. You got clear on the qualities and values you want in your lover. Now the question is, “are you anything like the person you’d like to meet”? I hope so. If not, you know what you have to do. Start shifting your values and qualities. Then you’ll be a much greater match for your sweetie.

4. Let Go of the HOW

When you let go of the “way it’s supposed to happen” you allow the universe to works its magic. Though that may sound Woo-Woo, the truth is when you have a firm opinion about “HOW it supposed to be,” you limit yourself. You’re also in a resistant mode, which does nothing for the attractor factor.

When you’re looking, it’s much easier to find them when you are really clear on you want. So get clear, go with the flow and be the kind of person you want to meet.

How To Find Love with Your Ideal Partner

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Specialist, writes… …

Looking for and finding love doesn’t have to be the challenging burden most people think it is.
Though it may seem that way at times, I can assure you that you can find the perfect mate for you if you follow these steps.
The values and attributes you want in your ideal mate will determine what actions you take to find him or her.
Whether you want fun companionship or lasting love and commitment, knowing what you want is the first step.
There are three crucial points to successful partnership chemistry. Attraction or chemistry is not
about how attractive you look, having the perfect come on lines, or being smoothe.
I’m referring to who you are that comes from the inside that will determine how attractive you are and the kind of vibe you give off.
There is a universal principle known as the Law of Attraction which states like attracts like.
When you know what you want, play with the feeling of how it feels to already have what you want, and let go of the how and when, you’ve removed the resistance to having the relationship you deeply desire and deserve.

Here’s further explanation of what I mean.

1. Know what you want.
The universe is made up of energy which is moldable. Physics has taught us that. We are part of this universe and our thoughts are part of the creative energy that molds the energy. For example, everything you see was once at first an idea. Knowing what you want helps you clarify your intentions and
makes a very clear statement for yourself and to the universe. Many of us get wishy washy here and end up having relationships and experiences we don’t think we’d necessary chose. But choose we did. We just chose from a default setting that goes something like… “well, I’m not sure, whatever, maybe,
maybe not.” There’s not much deliberate intent in these kinds of feelings or thoughts. You can be clear about what you want and get it. Go for it and make a comprehensive list of what you want.

2. How will it feel when you have what you want?
To charge up your attraction power, get into the feeling state (the essence) of what it will feel like when. When she calls you those lovely pet names, when he calls to ask where you’d like to go to dinner tonight. The smiles, the laughter, the inside jokes you share. Imagine what it will be like when …

3. Let go of how and when love will show up.
Lastly, become an allower and go with the flow. When you let go of how and when, you’ve let go of resistance to having your love show up. Feeling good, expectant and happy releases resistance. From that place you’ll be inspired to actions that put you in the places, be surrounded by circumstances, synchronicities and small miracles that orchestrate the
perfect meeting. That’s how it happened for me and that’s what I teach my clients to do for themselves.

Find out what people are saying about Relationship Group Coaching at www.nanettegeiger.com/groupclass