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Flirting By Text Is The Easiest Way To Attract Women

How would you like to know the one technique I always use to flirt and create sexual tension? It’s the texting facility on my cell phone. You will, naturally, be familiar with text messaging unless you’ve spent the last two years in a cave. These are brief “email style” messages that you can send to people using your cell phone. They have become widely used because of their usefulness for asking a quick question or sending a brief message. What’s interesting is women LOVE text messaging! If you’ve ever watched a girl out socially, you’ll realize how many text messages she sends. I actually believe that this form of technology is rapidly taking the place of phone conversations. Start by text messaging a girl the right way, and you can very quickly create enough attraction that you won’t have to work very hard on this when you meet her next. But we have a huge problem here… Most guys complete screw-up what they write on their text messages. Men text the same way they’d typically hold conversations. When talking to one another, we like to think logically and make plans. This means their texts are almost always straight to the point. On the other hand, text messaging is seen by women as a method of getting to know each other. They use it to describe their problems and stay in touch with people in their lives. It’s important not to forget this rule when texting! Far and away the best way to use text messaging is to build sexual tension. Before any text, I take time to think how this particular message will improve the flirting and sexual tension I’ve got going with this girl. Irrespective of whether I’m teasing her, sending “comfort” messages or simply making plans, my text messages are specifically crafted to create a strong emotion in the woman who is receiving them! I’ve experienced great results in my dating life as a consequence of sending a well-crafted text message. I have to say that I’m stunned at how little info is available about the correct way to text a woman. While I know many guys use them, not much has been written on the subject! So for the last 5 months, I’ve had to create my own method for text messaging. So let’s cover the basics of text messaging. Over the last five months, I’ve received a number of emails from guys who are interested in improving their “text game”. I guess I receive only 2 main questions 1) What’s the purpose of sending text messages? 2) Can you give examples of actual messages you’ve sent? These 2 questions demand a lot of discussion, so lets get going #1- What is the purpose for texting? The bottom line is this :Texting a girl is just about the creation and maintenance of sexual tension! It’s easy to have attraction when you first get a number. But you can lose this very quickly in the space of time between securing her number and making your first phone call. You can keep the attraction alive in the time you’re apart by the use of text messages. I’d never advice you to text rather than make a phone call, but sending her one or two messages can be an excellent way to make a woman think about you while she’s going about her day. And when you go to call her, she’ll immediately recognize the good feelings and emotions that you’ve already given her. This makes it easy to get her on the phone and set up a 2nd meeting (ie: First Date) Texting helps me stand out from the other guys who are trying to call this girl. I ensure that I focus on 2 things when I’m texting a girl 1) Teasing her in a familiar way to create the feeling that we already know each other 2) Using call back humor to an event/conversation that happened when I met her I usually start an exchange of texts by referring to something that occurred during our first conversation. (This is how to use the call-back humor that I previously mentioned) As an example, a short while ago I met a beautiful girl from Eastern Europe. Once she started to talk, it struck me how much she sounded like the guy in the movie Borat. And once I’d ascertained that she definitely saw the movie and “gets the joke”, I teased her non-stop about being a Borat sound-alike. Starting the first message by referring to Borat seemed the natural thing to do. This takes onto the next question I want deal with (This is the part where I give you the 12 proven text messages promised earlier) #2- Can you give ACTUAL examples of messages you’ve sent? I said earlier that I will typically use call-back humor with my text messages. This adds to the difficulty of providing “cookie-cutter” examples. However, there are times when I didn’t get an opportunity to use call-back humor. Irrespective of how well I’ve got to know the girl, I’ll try out some of the messages that have worked well for me before. What follows are 12 messages I’ve successfully used ==> After meeting a girl- (Use 2-3 hours after the first meeting to establish initial contact) 1) “I know I’m in your thoughts right now. So I thought I would say hi!” 2) “My ears are scorching…please stop talking about me!” 3) “Wow…that’s weird. I believe I just saw your twin. Could you be stalking me?” ==> Lifestyle updates- (Use to keep contact ever other day & demonstrate that you’re a fun/interesting person ) 4) “Dude…my cat just did the craziest thing…” 5) “I just saw an army of Oompa Loompas. It looks to me like short people are breeding too fast 6) 84 degrees out. It’s time to pick up a towel and head for the beach. Too bad you have to work!!!” ==> Building Sexual Tension- (Use after you’ve talked on the phone and set up a 2nd meeting) 7) “Missing me yet?” “Tomorrow should be amazing. Just try not to embarrass me in front of my mates” 9) “Can’t wait to see you. You’re just like the bratty little sister I’ve always wanted. ==> After the 2nd meeting- (Use to reinforce the good time she had) 10) “Had a really AWESOME time. Hugs and kisses!” 11) “Fun times! I guess it’s safe to let you meet my good friends!” 12) “Had a great time! Even if you are a little dorky…” It can be as quick to lose sexual tension as it was to gain it in the first place. That’s why it’s vital to maintain the attraction at all points in the relationships you have with women. In other words, never permit the lines of communication to wane. That’s why I implore you to follow the advice on texting I’ve shared with you here today, and remain in contact with every woman you are dating.

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