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Law of Attraction Coach: If the Program Is not What You Want, Change the Station

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert , writes… …

If you do not like the plot to the movie, tell your own. We’ve all been fooled into thinking that the life we’re living is etched in stone. It isn’t. You can change it any time you desire. You are in truth more like a screenwriter and movie director than you may think. Set aside some time to consider how you might prefer your life story to occur. If you do not enjoy this one, make up a new one. I am serious. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships today to help increase your positive vibration!

There are a few ideas I would like to cover to make your life re-creation a bit easier. If you would enjoy changing your life as it stands, you must first stop resisting it. Put simply, you have to make peace with what is so and stop putting as much attention on how bad, inappropriate, lonely, or uneventful it is. If you keep your attention on what’s so, you’ll just be creating an increased amount of that. Begin by making peace with your life as it is right now; let it not be a huge deal and proceed to think full out in creating the reality you desire. The kind of reality that has you eager to get into life. The kind of life you would be signing up for in a fun and exuberant way. A Law of Attraction Coach can assist you right now to free yourself from old limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.

If you are single and want to be happily in love, learn to be ok with being single. Love every good thing about your life right now. Then start imagining how your life will be when…

You have your lover to hold hands with. You can plan a weekend getaway; You celebrate your first wedding anniversary. Using the Law of Attraction is an incredibly powerful tool for Relationship Attraction, and it’s simple to understand.

Current reality often gets more of our attention, so naturally that is what we attract more of. Find a friend you can play the game of Telling A Different Story with. Make it a daily practice to write down your life as you want it to be. You are the writer, director, and casting agent of your life movie so make it a good one.

Law of Attraction Self-Coach Tips

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Specialist , writes… …

Have you ever wondered how it is you are getting what you are receiving in life? What you’re thinking and feeling is always a vibrational equivalent to what’s showing up into your life experience. You can easily see if you are a vibrational match to your wants based on you are manifesting.

Your ideas are electrical and transmit, while your emotions are magnetic and they attract. As you have most likely read by now, the Universe is responding to what you are thinking and feeling instead of just the things you are saying. You could be saying “I want more money,” while the Universe is responding to “He or she wants the experience of wanting more monetary wealth. Wonderful, I’ll send her more of that.” It’s really quite literal. Using the Law of Attraction is a hugely powerful tool for Relationship Attraction, and is simple to understand.

The thoughts you are thinking and what you’re acquiring is always going to be a match. You are asking without words. You’re asking by the dominant vibration you’re sending out. What is your dominant vibration? Is it insecurity, or anxiety? Is it shyness or boldness? Is it low self-esteem or high expectation? It’s worth noticing and then doing something to amplify your good feeling emotions. A Law of Attraction Coach can assist you right now to free yourself from old limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.

What you think, mull over, or imagine, is causing a reaction from your emotions in you and that is an indicator of what your vibrational level is. You’re projecting onto the Universal movie screen what you are thinking so the Universe knows what to start sending back to you. You have absolute creative control on what you get. Only you have control of your rational mind and emotions. No person can take that away from you. Why not beginning to meaningfully offer your vibration?

If your experiences are not what you desire, then you must spend more time imagining what it will be like when you have precisely what you want. How will you feel? What kinds of things will you do? How much fun, joy, and peace will you be living? We knew how to use our imaginations when we were children. Start using more of your imagination. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships today to help increase your positive vibration!

When you desire to create a more attractive life you have to spend more time WHAT-IF-ing rather than WHAT-IS-ing. Place your attention to what you desire, how it will feel AS IF you have received it already and watch as you turn into a magnet to your desire.

Law of Attraction Coach Shares: It is More Efficient to Go With the Flow

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We have all been trained in logical thinking, to utilize our wits, to confirm opinions with facts, gather the right data, substantiate it all and tell the truth. But do your sensory organs verify what is truth or simply what you’re observing? Even in scientific laboratories it’s been proven that the mere act of observing changes the possibility of the outcome of the experiment. Why? The influence of people’s intentions. What!? We have the ability to change what we are observing? That’s correct, and the idea is based on what we expect to occur and what we intend. It’s the Law of Attraction at work!

We actually have the power to change the outcome of our life experience by what we think, what we expect, and our emotional level. When what we are thinking and the events we expect match up, it’s what is called alignment, and manifestation follows. Using the Law of Attraction is an incredibly powerful tool for Relationship Attraction, and is easy to understand.

There is so much more leverage in energy aligning. It is the way of least resistance, or the way of most allowing. After you align your energy, your actions are in harmony with what you want and expectations rather than from forcing an outcome.

Our bodies do trillions of biological and chemical functions a day, all without conscious thought. The Universe splendidly orchestrates the movement of planets, stars, and solar systems with more precision than an atomic clock.

This all occurs without effort. There is a greater organizing power occurring that our mere brain can truly understand. We are intimately linked to the energy that manages everything. In fact, it is who we are at our essence.

Life should not be plagued with stress, force, and endless striving. Success, fulfilment, and ease is our inherited birthright. As a part of this elegant Universe, we own such properties. You can practice what it feels like to be in alignment with Universal Law when you take a few moments of silence, turn inward and just relax. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you today to free yourself from old limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.

All it takes is a moment to tune in to the energy that moves the Universe and realize that you are an integral piece of everything that is. You are known, you have power, and you have importance.

Law of Attraction Coach Explains: Let Yourself Off the Hook, You Don’t Deserve to Live Without It

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach , writes… …

Perhaps you’ve heard of the ‘Bucket of Crab’ mentality. I am talking about the sort of mindset that says “if I can’t have it, you can’t either.” It’s a way of negating another person’s happiness by dragging that person down to their inadequacy. It sometimes gets expressed by a friend or family member who doesn’t like or does not want you striving for a higher goal or going beyond that which is typically the norm for the culture. We’ve all been there.

It’s similar in a tribe mentality. The tribe is meant to serve and keep the culture in a sustained state of relative safety. Every person has an explicitly delineated and extremely important role and function. If you wanted to reach beyond (as is our very nature) you actually risked the safety of the tribe. You’re taught: “I can’t expand beyond what my tribe needs of me, otherwise I’d be ostracised and experience certain death”. You’d be exiled and not given food or water and no other tribe for hundreds of miles.

However, you are wired to create. Your inherent nature is to go beyond, express, desire, and manifest. Then reach for another fun project or dream to fulfill. I’ve read that prior to reaching five years of age, they have heard the word ‘No’ over 60,000 times! It seems that our nature and our cultural values are conflicted with each other.

It’s a small wonder contradicting beliefs, critiquing mental monologue and fear of success haunt us from time to time. It’s been battered into our programming. This is known as cognitive dissonance. It’s like interference from your head when you hold many opposing thoughts at the same time. This dissonance becomes uncomfortable and wants a solution. It gets resolved in one of two ways. Either by returning to old, known patterns, or by allowing yourself to let go of the old to reach for a better place mentally. A Law of Attraction Coach can assist you in completely changing your outlook with expert life coaching.

It’s no wonder with the programming we have inherited that it can be so hard to make any effective change. The truth is, it is not your fault. Do not feel bad and heap more negative judgements on yourself. You are not to blame. Law of Attraction Relationships are incredibly rewarding and fulfilling past your wildest dreams! Imagine someone who is everything you have ever desired in a partner.

It is not your fault, but you do have a responsibility to take your power back. You’ve always had the ability to choose who you are and control that. Your word is attractive. And even more intensely, your thoughts in conjunction with emotion are creative and attractive. Glare the inhibiting programs in the face and confidently declare a different possibility for yourself. You are meant to thrive and create. You have the support of the Universe. Relationship Attraction has never been more powerful with the discovery of the Law of Attraction.

Relationship Coach Explains How to Let the Law of Attraction Work For You

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach , writes… …

Love is a super powerful vibrational energy. Appreciation is close to the top as well. Are you in the mindset of appreciating, love and high vibrations regularly? Good.

Even if you find your mood going down the emotion scale, in only a matter of moments you can easily restore it again.

Use memories that make you feel happy. Think of your little niece, or when your pet was a baby. Imagine things that allow yourself to feel good. Do some action that makes you feel better. You really can use the Law of Attraction with great success, and it’s fun too!

Search for something to appreciate. It doesn’t matter if it has already happened or is happening in your life currently. For example, think about the moment your daughter was born. Give some love to your pet. Toss a ball to your dog. Buy a bubble-blowing kit. Get some exercise. Walk. Watch the squirrels playing. Listen to some great music. Take a deep breath. Can you find thanks for the simple fact that you have ten functional fingers? How about ten toes? Do you have a roof over your head? Fresh water and an abundance of food? Do you appreciate the electricity and the highways we drive on? What about indoor plumbing? Do you have family and friends that love you? Think of the hundreds of things you can be appreciative of. We are so very blessed.

There are so many ways you can use to raise your vibration. You cannot skip and stay mad. Try it. Giggle. Juggle (or try). Make distortions of your face in your bathroom mirror. If you are feeling truly down, try ice cream or cookies. Using the Law of Attraction is a hugely powerful tool for Relationship Attraction, and is simple to understand. Try a nap or create a diversion. It won’t be an unconscious act if you deliberately choose it.

Notice how much better you feel when you consciously choose something instead of simply unconsciously stuffing yourself with sweets. You may eat a cookie or two and stop instead of mindlessly emptying the bag. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you today to free yourself from old limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.

There is absolutely nothing of greater importance than you feeling good. That is another Abraham-ism. And so true. When you feel good, you feel God.

Law of Attraction Moment 29: Variance Allows Clearness

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach , writes… …

Many folks think that if they could make contrast disappear in their lives (the opposite of what they desire) they’d be much more happy and successful. Untrue! Contrast actually brings a critically important component to the creative process.

Do you know of the art technique that was practiced during the Renaissance called Chiaroscuro? It showed that the use of paint and the manipulation of light and darkness on a painting created depth, dimensionality and complexity. This is brought about by the contrast and the play by gradation of light and the dark colors. Interestingly, the same contrast occurs in life; try to wonder how bland the world would be if it were all one color? No contrast, everything the same. Sameness would herald the veritable end of all creative process. This cannot happen. After all, you don’t really desire experience without change. What I’m sure you would desire to enjoy the clarity that contrast brings so you can start to attract what you want, rather than what you don’t want. With that clarity you can begin to attract Law of Attraction Relationships and the life you’ve always desired!

What is it you DO want? Allow the change in life provide that for you. Watch the contrast only for as long as it takes to achieve that knowledge. If your conflicting life experience is “not enough money,” now you have an extremely clear idea about what you DON’T desire and thus you have a very clear idea about what you DO desire. You desire “more than enough monetary wealth”. That’s the clear benefactor of contrast! You really can use the Law of Attraction with great success, and it’s fun too!

Only keep your attention on the change long enough to gain the clarity of what’s desired. Provided you do not keep clinging to what you don’t want, “not enough money,” you will be attracting more money. But many people find that rather tricky. Everybody around us is talking about lack of money and the economy. Everywhere you turn they’re talking about the economic downturn, the recession, etc. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you today to free yourself from old limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.

It takes a deliberate creator to continue to be focused on that which you DO want. And that is your task.

Remember to stay in the mode of appreciating what you DO want; that is creating attractive energy. Instead of wanting what you DO NOT desire - that’s attractive, too. It just attracts more of that which you do not want.

Law of Attraction Relationships Are Simpler to Manifest Than You Might Imagine

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …

What about your “other” relationships? I mean, the ones with your brother, your boss, your roommate, or teenage step-son. How about your relationship with your finances, your body, your environment? Everything.

How do you create them? “What do you mean how do I make them? They are already created”. Well, perhaps, or perhaps not. The thing is, our ways of being, those practiced patterns of thinking that go unquestioned, are in reality ongoing ways of creating. It is an expectation, an already made pattern of being that doesn’t allow for any new outcomes to enter your life. We have expectations concerning our long-standing relationships, and they are always met. Your manifestations will usually align with what you expect will occur. So what about those other relationships? What new possibility could you allow to come to pass? Relationship Attraction becomes easier with the assistance of a Life Coach.

When you think of manifestation as being an ever-present event rather than a done deal, you’ll find there is much more movement, flow, and possibility in life. Energy really is fluid and flexible. You are not trapped in one possibility and no one else is either. At any given time there are any number of events that can occur. This is true for any relationship you have. Start bringing that possibility to all your relationships and see how they begin arriving differently.

You have the ability to re-write the way they are occurring. That’s correct. You have this capability. Your recurring thoughts concerning them is exactly how they habitually show up. Law of Attraction Love is possible, and you can have the love of your dreams today!

Try this… Next time you have less than wonderful thoughts of your ex, your body, or your boss, attempt imagining them as perfect just as they are. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you enormously in the area of intentional manifestation and shedding yourself of limiting thoughts.

That may appear a stretch at first, but I’ll guarantee that if you practice these techniques, they will start showing up differently. You’re a powerful creator!

Try it. And I will be glad to hear from you about it.

Law of Attraction Coach: If the Program Is not What You Want, Change the Station

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert , writes… …

If you do not like the plot to the movie, tell your own. We’ve all been fooled into thinking that the life we’re living is etched in stone. It isn’t. You can change it any time you desire. You are in truth more like a screenwriter and movie director than you may think. Set aside some time to consider how you might prefer your life story to occur. If you do not enjoy this one, make up a new one. I am serious. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships today to help increase your positive vibration!

There are a few ideas I would like to cover to make your life re-creation a bit easier. If you would enjoy changing your life as it stands, you must first stop resisting it. Put simply, you have to make peace with what is so and stop putting as much attention on how bad, inappropriate, lonely, or uneventful it is. If you keep your attention on what’s so, you’ll just be creating an increased amount of that. Begin by making peace with your life as it is right now; let it not be a huge deal and proceed to think full out in creating the reality you desire. The kind of reality that has you eager to get into life. The kind of life you would be signing up for in a fun and exuberant way. A Law of Attraction Coach can assist you right now to free yourself from old limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.

If you are single and want to be happily in love, learn to be ok with being single. Love every good thing about your life right now. Then start imagining how your life will be when…

You have your lover to hold hands with. You can plan a weekend getaway; You celebrate your first wedding anniversary. Using the Law of Attraction is an incredibly powerful tool for Relationship Attraction, and it’s simple to understand.

Current reality often gets more of our attention, so naturally that is what we attract more of. Find a friend you can play the game of Telling A Different Story with. Make it a daily practice to write down your life as you want it to be. You are the writer, director, and casting agent of your life movie so make it a good one.

Relationship Coach Explains How to Allow the Law of Attraction To Do The Work For You

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach , writes… …

Be on the lookout for clues that mean your love relationship is coming.

Or, search for evidence that your current relationship is getting better, if you are already in one.

Because of the RAS (reticular activation system) in our brains, we’re wired to seek and attain that which we’re looking for. It’s the same part in the brain that sees dents in cars all over the place, but only after you have acquired a dent in your car.

Place your expectency such that you will see evidence of happy relationships. If the very thought of looking for positive relationships leads you to go into a tailspin, you obviously have some resistance that has to be softened. Before you can attract solid Law of Attraction Relationships, you have to first get rid of that resisting energy.

A client of mine, when I suggested she look for evidence around her of happy couples, she quickly fell into a slump due to the fact that she was not one of them. We had to start working on the resistant energy she had to watching other people happy when she was not.

The positive side is that if you see it in your life, then it must be in your vibrational vicinity. What you’re seeing is always a match to what vibrations and beliefs you’re transmitting. That’s the good news, that Relationship Attraction is possible for you with the Law of Attraction.

Begin by looking for sights of happy lovers, loving relationships, examples of sweet encounters and know that could be you. Celebrate that it is showing up. What you want IS finding you! Law of Attraction Love is out there looking for you, so go get it!

When I was creating and attracting the love of my dreams, I heard a woman on the phone with her sweety. Just before she hung up, she said “I love you too, honey”.

After that I thought, I love that. I like that he said “I love you” before she did. I put that in my little bag of evidence of another attribute of what he was going to be like.

Have fun with it and watch what is created!

Law of Attraction Coach Shows The Gift of Contrast

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …

I’m sure you’ve noticed at times life seems to want to throw us a fast curveball? Something you were not expecting and probably something you don’t want shows up. This seemingly unwarranted situation changes the stability of your life and can rock the boat some (or a lot). Depending on the coping mechanisms we have in our emotional coping tool box, how we handle these upsets can range from slightly unsettling to down right devastating. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you right now to free yourself from old limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.

We might think of these life eyesores as contrast. Contrast, the experience of something that is strikingly unlike what we’re accustomed to. And that’s how life goes sometimes. Change is going to happen whether you want it to or not. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships today to help increase your positive vibration!

Contrast needs to come about in life. You wouldn’t be alive if you didn’t experience contrast. I would like to show you how you can keep content, in control, and peaceful in the middle of all of this contrast, even the most seemingly devastating of changing life experiences.

When life is tossing you a curveball, if you can cease attaching yourself to it for a minute, remove all the drama and lower it down to simply the facts, you will notice that what’s being given is simply information. “My car has a dent in it.” “My child got a D minus on his term paper.” “My brother has cancer.” It is the tale we apply to the information that takes us down. Any life experience we’re going through that we dislike, we can name contrast. Contrast, when seen as information, will be used quite effectively. Contrast just shows us what is NOT wanted. Once we know what isn’t desired, we now have an extremely clear frame of reference for what IS wanted. Using the Law of Attraction is an incredibly powerful tool for Relationship Attraction, and it’s easy to understand.

Contrast, when seen as information, creates clarity. When you have clarity, you can begin forming statements and begin transmitting energy and your intentions to what you desire. You now have the Universe assisting you in creating that which you want. For example, “My car got dented” might provide you with new desires such as, “I want to park where there’s enough room for cars; where it is less of a hassle to get in and out of my car”. The not-so-hot grade on your child’s term paper could enhance your desires for his well-being and clarity. Your sister having a disease could stimulate your wants to transfer love, compassion, and healing intent their way.

Contrast is able to provide amazing opportunities for insight, clarity, and creative energy. Contrast has created clarity and has produced a new desire so you can put your energy on what is wanted.

Contrast, when viewed as information (minus the drama), provides factors that produce a larger range of creative expression. No artist, inventor, or creator would ever want to be in a universe without contrast. Become friends with your life contrast, use it to gain clarity and become the creator of your experience.