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Want To Know How To Flirt With Your Ex Boyfriend?

So you want to learn how to flirt with your ex boyfriend, but you don’t want to look try-hard in the process?

Take some advice from a pro.

I fancy myself a professional flirt. I am flirting ALL the time, and I know what works. I do it for fun, practice and intellectual (and physical) stimulation.

The one thing I absolutely can’t stand is knowing there’s a man out there I can’t have.

A while ago, a man I was casually dating broke up with me. Now, I didn’t care much for the relationship, but something was definitely wrong with this picture. For the sake of my perfect record and my pride, I wanted to make sure I could get my ex back – even if it meant breaking up with him right after!

I flirted with him for months until he finally broke and came crawling back.

Here’s some tips on flirting with your ex, the way the pros do it:

1. Act genuinely happy.

This isn’t flirting per se, but showing anything less than this will kill your chances no matter what sneaky tactics you employ. It’s crucial that you don’t show any insecurity and neediness when talking with your ex boyfriend. Men are drawn to carefree, happy women.

2. Ask him for advice.

Classic. When most girls will call or text an ex “just to talk,” they’re being way too obvious by showing they have nothing better to do than message him.

Instead, be innocent about it and ask him for help. Men want to be your white knight, and when they feel like they’ve helped you out, it will make him want you in his life. Sounds convoluted, but it goes to show you how silly a man’s mind can be.

An enthusiastic “Thank you!!” and a quick, friendly hug will leave him confused and disappointed.

3. Talk about other men.

Want to step it up from #2? Ask him for his thoughts about other guys. Say it’s “for a friend.” He’ll assume that you’re the one that needs the advice, which will make him jealous.

The point is to show that you have other men in your life (not just romantic interests, but also guy friends). Your ex will ALWAYS jealous of the other men in your life, because he knows 1. You spend more time with them, and 2. You might be sleeping with them.

4. Keep your conversations sexual.

If you hang out with your ex (and you should – just make sure he thinks it’s platonic), throw in a little reminder about the fun you guys had when you’re dating.

He should have a favorite memory of you two (usually a sexual fantasy you fulfilled for him). While you’re hanging out, make sure you’re relaxed and laughing and say, “Remember when (MEMORY)?”

When he says yes, why do you ask, simply say “Oh nothing, I just suddenly thought of it.” Leave it at that.

The point here is to only trigger his feelings and desires so he feels a pang of regret. Don’t act like you’re interested.

For something a little more daring, ask if he ever masturbated to you after you broke up (I 100% guarantee he did). If he asks you the same thing, be coy and deflect answering. Make him wonder.

5. Spend some secret time alone together when doing things with friends.

Assuming you both share similar social circles (or at least hangout venues), you’ll sometimes end up hanging out at the same place at the same time. Start out the night by just having some fun with your friends.

Get a little tipsy (not too much), then make sure you suddenly end up crossing paths at some point later in the night, where you’ll both be alone. Then smile and flirtatiously say, “Hey, you look good,” playfully touching him on the arm or chest.

The key is to make it seem totally spontaneous, like you never think about him normally but the sight of him suddenly reminded you of the last time he gave you an orgasm. He’ll see it in your eyes and enjoy the attention.

You can spend some time bantering with him, but no more than that. Spend 5 minutes with him at the most, then leave to join your friends. He’ll be left remembering [reminiscing] how good [great] it was to be with you.

Do all of the above well, and you’ll be seducing ex boyfriends like a pro in no time.

Want To Know How To Flirt With Your Ex Boyfriend?

So you want to learn how to flirt with your ex boyfriend, but you don’t want to look like a desperate whore in the process?

Take some advice from a pro.

I fancy myself a professional flirt. I flirt nonstop and I’ve deduced what works best. I do it for fun, practice and intellectual (and physical) stimulation.

The one thing I absolutely can’t stand is knowing there’s a man out there I can’t have.

A while ago, a man I was casually dating broke up with me. Now, I didn’t care much for the relationship, but something was definitely wrong with this picture. For the sake of my perfect record and my pride, I wanted to make sure I could get him back – even if it meant breaking up with him right after!

I flirted with him for months until he finally broke and came crawling back.

Here’s some tips on flirting with your ex, the way the pros do it:

1. Act genuinely happy.

This isn’t flirting per se, but showing anything less than this will kill your chances no matter what sneaky tactics you employ. You absolutely cannot show any insecurity, doubt, or neediness when it comes to interacting with your ex. Men are drawn to carefree, happy women.

2. Ask him for his thoughts.

Classic. When most girls will call or text an ex “just to talk,” they’re being way too obvious by showing they have nothing better to do than message him.

Instead, be innocent about it and ask him for help. guys love to be your hero, and when they feel like they’ve done something for you, it will validate him. Sounds convoluted, but it goes to show you how silly a man’s mind can be.

An enthusiastic “Thank you!!” and a quick, platonic hug will leave him confused and disappointed.

3. Talk about other men.

Want to step it up from #2? Ask him for his thoughts about other guys. Say it’s “for a friend.” He’ll assume it’s you who wants the guy advice, and he’ll get curious.

The point is to show that you have other men in your life (not just romantic interests, but also guy friends). Your ex will ALWAYS jealous of the other men in your life, because he knows 1. You’re hanging out with the other guys. You might be sleeping with them.

4. Inject some sexuality.

If you hang out with your ex (and you should – just make sure he thinks it’s platonic), throw in a little reminder about the fun you guys had when you’re dating.

He should have a favorite memory of you two (usually a sexual fantasy you fulfilled for him). While you’re hanging out, make sure you’re relaxed and laughing and say, “Remember when (MEMORY)?”

When he says yes, why do you ask, simply say “Oh nothing, I just suddenly thought of it.” Leave it at that.

The point here is to only trigger his feelings and desires so he feels a pang of regret. Don’t act like you’re interested.

For something a little more daring, ask if he ever masturbated to you after you broke up (I 100% guarantee he did). If he asks you the same thing, be coy and deflect answering. Let him imagine.

5. Share some secret “alone time” while out with friends.

Assuming you both share similar social circles (or at least hangout venues), you’ll sometimes end up hanging out at the same place at the same time. At first, just hang out with your friends.

Get a little tipsy (not too much), then make sure you suddenly end up crossing paths at some point later in the night, where you’ll both be alone. Then smile and flirtatiously say, “Hey, you look good,” playfully touching him on the arm or chest.

The key is to make it seem totally spontaneous, like you never think about him normally but the sight of him suddenly reminded you of the last time he gave you an orgasm. He’ll see it in your eyes and enjoy the attention.

You can spend some time bantering with him, but no more than that. Spend 5 minutes with him at the most, then leave to join your friends. He’ll wish you were still sharing that moment together.

Do all of the above well, and you’ll be seducing ex boyfriends like a pro in no time.